03 forgive
people, situations, circumstances and sins
(forgiveness, forgiving,
divorce, annulment, bureaucracy, bureaucrats, capital punishment,
death penalty, genocide, ethnic cleansing, holocaust)
WIN-R (TM) transforms
negative memories, beliefs and behaviors
into positive attitudes, actions and results in less than one minute!
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instant SUCCESS (TM) Program by Brian West
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Your Purpose | Act 2 - Specify Your Goals | Act 3 - Eliminate
Your Blocks
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03 forgive people, situations, circumstances and sins
Forgiving does NOT mean approving of decisions that you now regret nor approving of what happened to you or to anyone else. However, forgiving does mean LETTING GO of the negative emotional and physical energy surrounding your decisions or what happened. Then you are free to make new, empowering choices and are not encumbered by your negative memories of the past.
CAUTION: Forgive is not the same as absolve, acquit, exonerate, pardon or vindicate. If you are not clear about the difference, refer to a good dictionary.
NOT FORGIVING (until now, not knowing HOW to forgive) is the reason why "bad things happen to good people" (and why "bad things happen to bad people"); and FORGIVING (or not having to forgive or not having Blocks in the first place) is the reason why "good things happen to bad people" (and why "good things happen to good people").
Anyone can permanently forgive anything in less than one minute with WIN-R, and you only need a few minutes to learn WIN-R. After you completely forgive,
O you will no
longer focus your attention on the negative past experience,
O you will focus
your positive attention on the blessings in your present Life,
O you will
prepare for your empowering future Life on Earth,
O you will not
"create" the same situation again,
O you will not
react negatively to similar situations again,
O you will think
and act differently in all situations,
O you will not
trigger the same old responses from other people and
O you will get
new and empowering results in your Total Life.
Heal the PAIN OF DIVORCE in less than one minute!
What better way to demonstrate my powerful, yet quick and easy, instant SUCCESS Program than to share one of my own personal Success Stories.
The good news is that I met a
truly wonderful lady on July 31, 1988 (I actually used a
primitive form of this Program
to draw her into my life). Shortly after we met, we made a
lifetime commitment to each other. Less than three months
after we met, we legalized our lifetime partnership by marrying
each other.
I loved her more than anyone else in the
Universe! We always had kind words for each other in public
and in private, we were together most of the time, we made love
almost every day, we usually agreed on most things, we had plenty
of money to spend, we lived in a nice home, we traveled often, we
looked and worked very well together and we created a successful
business helping millions of people create success in their own
lives too.
She was a fun friend, a loving partner, an
outrageous lover, an attractive woman, an excellent cook, an
intelligent human being, a wise teacher, an inspired artist, a
gifted healer, a skilled writer, a credible author, an articulate
speaker and an outstanding workshop leader.
The bad news is that she filed for divorce and left without any warning exactly four years after we married. Initially, I was really surprised and really hurt. Since we had developed so much success together, everything crashed at the same time (love, relationship, sex, support, friendships, telephone, mail, finances, bank account, business, furniture and so on). And I could not determine what prompted her behavior: I certainly could not determine anything that I might have done wrong (I did not have any addictions, I had never been arrested, I never cheated on her, I never abused her, I did not deny her any pleasures, I did not "force" her to do anything, etc.). However, she really did leave and I had to quickly heal my pain!
The good news is that I had developed a new tool which I used to completely forgive her immediately. This powerful tool is named West Instant Neuro-Reprogramming, known as WIN-R ("winner"). Unfortunately, she chose to not use WIN-R to heal whatever reason she broke her commitment and left without any warning (just like every tool, WIN-R does not work if you do not use it; however, I have now made it so easy to use that you will be much more likely to actually use it to improve your own life). Since she consciously chose to be my partner, she only needed to COMPLETELY let go of her negative emotional energy associated with some problem in the relationship (I'm guessing here) FIRST (that is, she needed to forgive), then take the empowering action that her Inner Guidance suggested. Remember that no one ever does anything without a "good reason"; however, fulfilling an empowering goal certainly creates different results than not dealing with whatever "good reason" you may have.
Forgiving her did not mean that I approved of her behavior (her betrayal was unconscionable); however, forgiving her did mean that I let go of the negative emotional energy, and corresponding negative physical energy, surrounding her behavior.
CAUTION: Forgive is not the same as absolve, acquit, exonerate, pardon or vindicate. If you are not clear about the difference, refer to a good dictionary.
When I first began to forgive her,
I discovered that she had really been breaking many agreements
all along. In fact, she even told me when we met that she
had broken agreements with other people (if you are really
paying attention, people usually "tell you" everything
visible and not visible that you need to know about them).
She had also quit leading workshops and presenting lectures at
the end of the first year that we created a six-figure income
from our business (so her leaving me was not about lack of
income!), and she left me while I was thousands of miles from
home leading workshops and presenting lectures on my own (so her
leaving me was not about my abilities to professionally present
the workshop material in her absence either!). Since I
loved her so much and held her in such high regard, I had
overlooked her breaking agreements when we first met, and I
married her anyway. Well, I loved her and she had many
wonderful qualities (in fact, the only "complaint" I
ever had about her was that she did break agreements)!
However, love is important, but not really enough in itself for a
lasting relationship!
So I went back to her first broken agreement
and used WIN-R to
completely heal my pain from her actions. Specifically, I
acted out in my mind that I said "NO" to our
relationship (she actually pursued me anyway!) when she first
told me about breaking agreements and I immediately felt my
personal power return surrounding the divorce. Had I
actually said "NO" in the beginning, our relationship
may have ended OR it could have continued in a totally
different and empowering direction (of course, I will never
know for sure what would have happened, but I certainly cleared
my negative energy now!). This same process can be used
anytime before, during or after any relationship, personal or
business.
NOTE:
You will have to actually experience WIN-R
for yourself for this discussion to make any real sense (after
all, this is truly a new process). Since each person
will have different earlier events which need to be healed, each
person must "listen to" his/her own Inner
Guidance to discover exactly what needs to be
healed in a particular situation or circumstance.
I particularly remember one couple in
Florida that was not actually divorcing (although divorce was a
real possibility); however, they were really angry toward each
other during the many years since they married as high school
sweethearts. Neither one of them really wanted to marry at
the time, but they both felt that they would lose each other if
they didn't marry then. During my live Workshop,
they completely let go of their anger toward each other using WIN-R. Of course, they
could not change the fact that they really were married and that
they really did have two children and lots of material stuff
together. However, once their anger toward each other was
completely eliminated, they could focus on the real love that
brought them together and begin building an empowering
relationship together. And they did! (This is one of
the reasons I enjoy leading live Workshops
so much!)
My complete healing was extremely important because I may never know why my partner broke her commitment and left without any warning. While I may never change people, situations, circumstances and sins, I can certainly change how I feel about people, situations, circumstances and sins. Then, I can immediately take different and empowering action toward all my goals, dreams and desires.
As a verification of the power of forgiving and of my immediate and complete healing, I continue a very successful life without her:
O I continue to be physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually healthy;
O when I am not exploring some other part of this vast Planet, I live in the best home in the best location in the best area of this Planet;
O whenever my Inner Guidance directs, I lead my Workshops and present my Lectures;
O to my surprise, she voluntarily gave me full and exclusive rights to the original Prosperity Made Simple Workshop and Prosperity Made Simple Home/Office Study Program materials that we had developed together (Thank You, but what were you thinking!);
O I completed my instant SUCCESS Book (which she had insisted she would do, but didn't!) and my instant SUCCESS Pocket Program Summary;
O I have designed and developed this free Web Site so that millions of people worldwide can benefit immediately from my (our) life work (note that our first workshop flyers said that she "is 100% committed to creating World Peace by the Year 2000, or sooner, through prosperity for everyone" and "her divine purpose is to heal the planet through prosperity for everyone" ... there must be some kind of "conspiracy" that caused her to completely give up her purpose ... OF COURSE, HER PURPOSE WAS ALREADY DOOMED TO FAIL because she would have to change or control the behaviors of too many people on this vast Planet for her purpose to be fulfilled ... AND, when she violated me by breaking her lifetime marriage commitment, she was certainly not demonstrating HOW to create World Peace in any time frame);
O I laugh when I think about how I actually picked the woman who left me (and I actually "knew" at some level of consciousness that she would leave me unless she healed whatever problem caused her behaviors);
O I also laugh when I think about how I actually entered into a marriage commitment which the government and religions would allow to be broken without any explanation, and with substantial penalties against the "victim" (I certainly would not make a business agreement under the same rules);
O I feel truly thankful that I am free to continue my purpose of Empowering The Planet without the sabotaging behavior of my former partner;
O I welcome my former partner back into my life (unless, of course, My New Partner is available first) as soon as I am completely convinced that I can trust her for the rest of our natural lives (I certainly cannot risk the possibility that she might again sabotage my purpose of Empowering This Planet of over seven billion people); and
O I have included a description of My New Partner at this Web Site (the description is a trustworthy version of my former partner).
NOTE: Please actually experience this powerful, free tool (WIN-R) that I used to heal this tragedy so quickly. WIN-R can also be used to eliminate any other Block to personal or business success in less than one minute! Since I have led thousands of people of all ages and backgrounds through WIN-R in just a few minutes at my live Workshops, I have demonstrated that WIN-R is safe to use by anyone, anywhere, anytime.
WARNING:
With such an incredibly high divorce rate in such a
"religious" world, you are really taking a painful and
expensive risk when you marry. Let's face it, the
traditional tools for assuring the romantic ideal of a lifetime
marriage have just plain NOT worked!
The good news is that we made up
everything in our world, including marriage. And we also
made up all the rules surrounding everything in our world,
including marriage.
Although I would never break my marriage
agreement with my partner, I did technically make a new
agreement when we married. That is, my pre-marriage
agreement was for a lifetime partnership; however, my marriage
agreement could be broken legally without any explanation (and
she certainly did break her agreement as allowed by law!).
Surprise?!
If you are already married, use my instant
SUCCESS Program
to keep your agreement regardless of the immoral and unethical
escape options of religions and laws. Since religions and
governments are actually contributing to the problem, you need this
new tool to succeed. Be sure to read my Application on How to
LOVE YOUR PARTNER
all the time!
If you are not currently
married, use my instant SUCCESS Program
to prepare yourself for an empowering and lasting
relationship. Expect to remove a lot of Blocks;
fortunately, you can remove Blocks
quickly with WIN-R.
For a detailed example of how to specify your new partner, be
sure to review My New Partner at this Web Site. If you already
know someone truly does not meet your requirements, you have some
serious work to do; after all, there are billions of people on
the Planet and you don't have to marry the first one that comes
along!
benefit from the full range of Applications
O 01
generate your own inspiration, motivation and faith
O 02
master material/nonmaterial abundance and time
O 03
forgive people, situations, circumstances and sins
O 04
honor all your agreements and be a good role model
O 05
build powerful personal and business relationships
O 06
experience a fulfilling marriage/family/community
O 07
learn empowering personal and business skills
O 08
discover and pursue a profitable career or purpose
O 09
develop and provide valuable products and services
O 10
start or grow a successful business or organization
O 11
increase your income from current or new ventures
O 12
create financial independence or a novel lifestyle
O 13
travel as far, as long and as often as you desire
O 14
enjoy your dream home/car/boat/cycle/aircraft/RV
O 15
lose weight or gain weight without dieting
O 16
eliminate dysfunctional and addictive behaviors
O 17
graduate from "recovering ..." to
"Recovered!"
O 18
heal physical, mental, emotional and spiritual pains
O 19
improve the health of your body, mind and soul
O 20 let
go of the negative past and truly enjoy the present
O 21
participate freely and fully in any area of your life
O 22
demonstrate your full athletic and creative potential
O 23
prepare your Total Self for the New Millennium
O 24
make an empowering contribution to the Planet